Hospitality and homestay (lessons 19-20)
Being a guest in a Nepali home. The 'khaana khaanu bhayo?' culture of food-as-greeting, ritual hand-washing before meals, and how to politely decline more dal bhat without offense.
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FSI 1979, lessons 19 and 20 combined. The cultural script of being a guest in a Nepali home — every Western trekker who survives a homestay learns these patterns the hard way unless they get them in advance. Minute 1: greeting question 'khaana khaanu bhayo?' (have you eaten?) — functions exactly like 'how are you' in English and the correct reply is 'khaae' (I ate) regardless of literal truth. Minutes 4–9: meal etiquette — right-hand only, no stepping over food, 'jutho' (left-overs touched by lips become ritually polluted). Minutes 10–15: how to refuse 'aru chaahincha?' (do you want more) without offense — 'pugyo' (enough) said three times is the script. Closing minutes: leaving a homestay — 'tapaai ko ghar maa ramro laagyo' (I enjoyed your home), plus the small gift culture and how a 200-rupee tea-money envelope is the right amount.
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